Dare to Lead: Distinguished Alumna Presents Inspirational Talk

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Dr Thandekile (Thandi) Ngxongo, a distinguished UKZN alumna, delivered a talk to the UKZN Durban Alumni Association on Monday, 26 May 2025.

As founder of the Thandekile Group, she is a leader in the oil and gas industry, with academic qualifications in chemical engineering, project management, an MBA and a PhD. Having risen from an engineering role to C-suite positions, she now owns petrol stations in KwaZulu-Natal, including the BP flagship on Moore Road.

Ngxongo has received numerous accolades, including the Nedbank Womandla Award, KZN Top Business Awards, Global SHE Awards, and the Hadarat Global Woman of Stature Award in Dubai. A respected speaker on international platforms such as the Forbes Leading Women Summit, she also leads the uThandekile Foundation, which supports education, women’s empowerment and environmental initiatives. Her motto is ‘Lift as you rise.’

Reflecting on her high school years, Ngxongo spoke of two teachers who influenced her in very different ways - one who discouraged her, and another who inspired her to reach her full potential. She said people often face doubt or discouragement from others, but should not listen to those voices.

Speaking on leadership, Ngxongo emphasised that before one can lead others, they must first lead themselves by overcoming personal challenges. She described life as a reflection of one’s leadership values. Her strategies for success include reflection and planning, business strategy, personal development and community involvement.

Ngxongo concluded her talk by highlighting the importance of mutual support. Her key messages were: love what you do, use your time wisely, and strive for excellence.

The talk was followed by a lively question-and-answer session, and a networking session with drinks and snacks. It formed part of a series of events co-ordinated by the UKZN Durban Alumni Association, which aims to bring alumni together to network, socialise and maintain strong links with the University.

Words: Ayabulela Mbhele

Photographs: Yola Ndzabe